No matter how great  sex is, if you aren’t fucking in your favorite positions it can always be better. We have some tips for helping you figure out what your partners favorite position is so that your love making can be next level.

Just Ask Them

This is probably the simplest way to figure it out. A simple “What are your favorite positions? “ or “Are there any positions you want to try out?” can take a lot of guess work out of figuring out what your partner prefers. Or give them two options and ask which one they prefer. Continue this little game until you’ve narrowed it down to a few of her favorites. Unless your partner is completely open during sex, it’s generally easier to ask about sex positions before you’ve got your clothes off. You can also try checking in with them after you have finished having sex. During your post-coital cuddle session ask  “which position felt best for you just then?”

Take some time focusing on them

Especially if your partner is female, taking a moment to consider their body type and flexibility levels can go a long way in figuring out what would be most enjoyable for your partner. Do they have bad knees? Then doggy may not be the best choice. Keep in mind that the majority of women need direct clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm. So, positions that enable clitoral grinding or the ability to reach down and stroke her clit will most likely be pleasers.

Try and Watch

There are an endless number of ways to arrange your bodies during sex. Even if you’ve found some of your favorites, it’s still fun to explore and make new discoveries. While you mix things up be sure to watch your partners reactions. Try reading their body language when you’re having sex in different positions. If they are just kind of laying there flip things up. You want your partner to be rocking back against you breathless and excited. That is when you have a good position.