Sometimes there just isn’t enough time for a full-blown quickie. That doesn’t mean you can’t still give your partner a hand blowing a load before you both run back to your busy schedule. We have some tips to make sure your hand game is on point.

LUBE LUBE LUBE

Have we mentioned how important lube is? Lubricant can be touchy, meaning too much and there isn’t enough friction to climax, but too little and there could be agitation or even pain. Saliva is a suitable lubricant for some couples, but you’ll need to continually add more saliva to have enough lubrication for handiwork. And if you are giving a hand job in the shower, then lubrication is a must. Lubrication is our sexual friend always, but probably nowhere more than when water is part of the sexual atmosphere.

Switch hitter

Just like with other sexual encounters, the best hand jobs involve switching things up. Closer to orgasm your partner may prefer you stay with just one touch or motion but building the arousal to that point usually works best with a variety of touches. Remember it isn’t all about the shaft. A man’s perineum is the surface area between the anal opening and the scrotum, the sack that holds the testicles and it is LOADED with nerve endings. Don’t be afraid to get both hands involved for a variety of sensations. A woman’s perineum is between her anus and the base of her vulva. She too may like this area massaged or caressed.

Visual Stimulation is important

This goes for any sexual position or technique, but let’s not forget the visual experience when giving a hand job. It can be a huge turn on to see how turned on your spouse is. Play to the visuals, including having some light in the room, even if it’s a closet light with the door slightly open to shed some light into the room. Don’t be afraid to tease your partner by touching yourself while you’re offering them a helping hand, you do have two after all.

We highly recommend that you both be “good with your hands” when it comes to sex!