Erectile dysfunction can happen for many different reasons and present in different ways. It can be the result of psychological reasons as well as many different physical causes. If you are experiencing erectile challenges, speak to your doctor about potential health concerns. Unfortunately, lots of mainstream thought focuses on the idea that all penis pleasure is seated in getting an erection, maintaining that erection and then ejaculating. Whether you have ED or maybe just whiskey dick, don’t worry we have some tips to make sure you are still finding pleasure in the bedroom!
The penis is a very versatile organ that offers many different pleasure potentials while flaccid, while erect and everywhere in between. One of the the best aspects of the current crop of sex toys is that they don’t necessarily focus on orgasm as the be-all, end-all of the experience. Many penis-focused sex toys work great as arousal tools that focus on either moving a penis toward erection, maintaining erection or just feel great on their own. Did you know there are even toys available to try to make you cum solely from “sucking” on your balls? There are also toys that can be used to stimulate and maintain an erection!
Remember that pleasure isn’t only brought on by an erect penis cumming. There are so many erogenous zones spread all over the body. Not everybody will enjoy touch in all of these areas, but be sure to explore the nipples, neck, armpits, buttocks, feet, chest, belly, fingers. Tucked in behind the scrotum is the perineum. This space of exposed skin varies in size, depending on the person. On the outside, it is plenty sensitive and responsive to touch. However, the perineum has an extra trick. Apply pressure externally and you can stimulate the prostate as well! This is a great way to provide prostate stimulation if you aren’t sure you’re ready for penetration. The frenulum is that little tuck of skin that sits directly under the urethral opening, on the underside of the penis. It can be extremely sensitive for some folks and may or may not be a choice spot for touch when erect. However, when flaccid this super sensitive spot mixed with some shaft stimulation may be just what you’ve been missing to find satisfaction.
