If you and your partner have passed those early steamy days and have moved onto comfortable sex, you may be missing that intense foreplay. Don’t worry, we’re here with some tips to help make sure the start of your sex is just as good as the finish.

Kiss like you’re kids

Kissing is the first key to successful foreplay. Kissing helps you bond more with your partner, increases sex drive and arousal. Pretend you and your partner are teens who snuck off to the woods in the back seat of your first car. Kiss and grind against each other like its 1999. Make it a challenge to see just how far you can both go without going all the way. Setting a limit may end up making you both want to cross that line that much more.

Enhance your oral

Foreplay doesn’t have to start in the bedroom. A simple scenery change can seriously spice things up. Go down on each other in the shower. Start giving him head while he’s still laying on the couch. Hike her skirt up and have a snack while you’re in the back yard. Adding in oral foreplay as a lead into sex and not the main corse can make a huge difference when it comes to being turned on.

Talk it out

Rather than rushing into intercourse, spend the day telling each other how much you want them, adding in suggestive touches here and there. Also while you’re kissing and grinding on each other add in some dirty talk. Tell them how you’re feeling, exactly what you want them to do to you, every single naughty thought racing through your brain. Foreplay isn’t all about physical moves, it’s also the perfect chance to talk to your partner about what they’re in the mood for or want to try.

If you only see successful sexual play as one that ends with an orgasm, you’ll wind up disappointed sometimes. Make the foreplay more of the fun and you will be back to having steamy mind blowing sex in no time!