Women and men get horny and aroused differently. While men may see something, hear something or even think of something and be ready to jump straight to sex, women are different. They often need to “feel” a certain way before they want to get intimate with you. If you start hearing “I’m not in the mood,” or your girl suddenly starts making excuses to get out of sex it may  be that she is just not getting turned on enough. We have some tips to help break you both out of a sexual lull.

Flattery can get you Fucked

Make sure you sound sincere. Women will know when you are just saying it vs when you mean it. Try surprising her with flowers for no occasion. Send her a text that you were thinking about her while you are at work. If you can tell she’s put a lot of effort into her outfit, let her know how good it looks. Don’t wait to be home and in the bedroom to do this. The next time you are chatting in a group of her friends, casually compliment her on something you really appreciate about her, make her feel special out of the bedroom and she will treat you like a King in the bedroom.

Keep up physical contact

If you never touch your partner in a way that shows your desire, then she may forget that you want her. So, you need to touch her. Consider it a form of long game foreplay. When you are out in public, put your hand on her lower back to guide her, like when you’re getting off an escalator or walking down the street. Another option when sitting together on the sofa is to pull her close to you so that she can rest her head on your lap. Playfully spank her when you’re joking around. As you get used to touching her to show her your intent and attraction, you will naturally find yourself doing it in other ways too.

Making your girl feel desired is a crazy powerful way to make her feel horny for you.