There are many ways of initiating sex, however if your partner is the one who normally gets the ball rolling, it may be hard to find the right ways to turn the heat up yourself. You don’t want to be too pushy, passive or confusing so that your partner gets the wrong idea of your intentions. You also don’t want to just say “Let’s have sex!” because it’s totally unproductive and it will create a counter effect (unless your partner has some submissive tendancies.) Stay relaxed and choose the right approach in accordance with their mood, the chances are that everything will go the way you desired, we’ve got some tips to help you along the way.
Dirty talk is underrated most of the times. It is a playful and sexy way of telling your partner that you would like to have some fun with them. It will build great sexual tension, and they will surely know that you’re in the mood for something spicy. Just slowly whisper into their ear and let your imagination do the rest. Bonus points if you can work a compliment into your dirty talk. Compliments are a great way to increase your partner’s mood and prepare them for action because they work as confidence boosters.
Make the most of mundane moments. For example if you’re in the kitchen together or doing laundry, try subtly touching your partner sensually. You don’t have to wait for the perfect moment because every moment is the perfect moment if you know how to approach it properly. Kiss their kneck, or run your hands along their ass and sides, whatever works best in bed for your partner is likely to work out of the bedroom as well.
You can also try just being direct, and telling your partner you really want them right now. Suggest something you’ve done in the past the reminder of the pleasure may leave them craving a revisit as well.
