Kinky sex is perfectly normal, if you are just starting to embrace your wild side we have some tips to make sure you kink sessions are a success.
Communication is Key
It may sound boring and unnecessary but it’s absolutely relevant. Without communication, your partner won’t be able to discover what you want and like. Hard limits and boundaries need to be discussed, safe words and check in words need to be established. Also being able to openly check in with each other during after care is crucial during kinker sex sessions. Keep in mind that body language is a great form of communication. If you feel tension anywhere, that’s the first sign they are not having fun and you probably should stop whatever you’re doing and move on to something else.
Limits are okay and expected
No one likes everything, its simply not possible. For example, if a threesome is not your partner’s cup of tea, don’t force it. Look for something different but equally exciting, maybe the hotwife scene would be more up their ally. You and your partner both will need to learn what you both like and what works in your dynamic. Sex is not an obligation, it should be fun, for everyone involved. If you aren’t all enjoying it you’re doing something wrong.
Start Slow
Nothing is sexier than confidence, but you need to build your way up to it. For example if you’re interested in sensory play, don’t jump right to a caning. Try out blindfolds and ticklers first. Work your way up to the more intense scenes. This will not only help build your confidence, but also give you a better understanding of your likes and limits.
Remember kinker sex doesn’t have to be an all or nothing situation. Talk to your partner about trying out some new things once in a while so you can both take the time to figure out what you enjoy as a couple.
