We all know what our man likes, but even the most secure woman can feel like she’s falling into a rut doing the same things over and over. Here are some fun and sexy ways to liven things up! Even if he may be a good old-fashioned boy, we promise you even he wants to try these too!
Dress Up For Him
Men are visual creatures, so seduction starts with his eyes. There’s not much more a man loves to look at than a woman in satin and lace! Turn him on instantly with promises of what’s to come by simply slipping into your favorite slinky, sexy lingerie. He’ll get the message quickly.
Touch Yourself
Not only will he love seeing you in your sexiest outfit, but this is a way to kick it up a notch. This doesn’t have to be super sexual, and we know that just diving right in there isn’t always that appealing. Try something a bit simpler to start with, like putting lotion on. Do it casually as if you have no idea he’s watching, but keep it slow and caress your body. He will love how sexual the seemingly innocent act is.
Role Play
Sexy nurse, naughty secretary, innocent housekeeper…the options are limitless. Don’t be afraid to ask him what he wants, even if it may seem a bit out there. After all, every man has a fantasy he’s dying to play out. Just remember whatever role you choose to play, commit to it and play it right, even if it means sex right there on the coffee table you just dusted. Don’t worry, it’ll give you some hot memories to look back on when you’re both sipping your coffee the next morning.
Dirty talk
Don’t over think it, something as simple as “ohhs” and “mmms” can go a long way. Guys can be just as insecure as girls, and some positive reinforcement can help lead him in the right direction. Don’t be shy; if you like what he’s doing, tell him you like it. Saying “that feels so good,” is a great go to for a beginner. And if you don’t like what he’s doing a gentle “I love when you…” will redirect him without ruining the mood or his ego!
