Squirting is female form of ejaculating from the vagina which can occur before, during, after, or even without orgasm. Helping a woman squirt is a big bedroom goal for many people. If you are one of them, then we are here to help!
Prep is Paramount
Your fingers will be inside her vagina a lot. If your nails are long, they can scratch and hurt her vagina. This will NOT help her squirt. Also, make sure you have a nice water-based lubricant on hand. This will quickly increase her arousal. You may also want to dim the lights and put on some mood music to help get her fully in the zone.
Foreplay
The actual technique of making her squirt revolves around foreplay. It’s much more difficult to make her squirt with your penis, unless she has squirted before. When you think she’s turned on enough to move on to sex, keep going she’s not. Once she is very wet, you can add some lube (trust us the wetter the better) and start fingering her. Begin to stimulate her G-spot. Insert your index finger into her vagina so that it touches the front wall. Begin to stroke your finger back and forth in a come-hither motion. Start slow and soft. Begin to build intensity by using longer and firmer strokes. Next, insert another finger and start again. Go slowly at first – gradually build up the speed and strength of your strokes. You should do this for 5-10 minutes.
Finish her
After at least 5 minutes of fingering her, find her G-spot. It is located a few inches inside the vagina along the upper wall. It’s highly sensitive and can sometimes swell when touched or aroused. It should feel like your almost cupping her vagina in your hand. Then, you begin to rapidly move your hand up and down. This allows her clit to be stimulated while still stimulating her G-spot. Your other hand will be on the left-middle part of her abdomen and close to her vagina – right above her pelvic bone where her hip bone starts. You’ll be pressing down with a decent amount of pressure on this part of her stomach with you hand. As you press down with your other hand, your palm with be on her clitoris with your fingers stimulating her G-spot. Increase your speed and keep going until she explodes. The key when helping a woman squirt is to make sure you pull up and back with your fingers while keeping contact with her clit.
Good luck and happy squirting!
