As your relationship progresses, the sense of anticipation will naturally dissipate as you get to know everything about each other and your preferences. This lack of anticipation can actually be great for making your relationship more routine, but it’s a disaster if you want to build sexual tension. We are here to help make sure you are keeping that spark alive for you both.
Tease her
Pretend you haven’t known each other for a while and play with her like things are brand new. When she makes small mistakes like ordering the wrong drink for you, “I don’t usually tolerate this kind of behavior, but on account of your cuteness, you get a pass…this time.” When she says something controversial, “My mom warned me about girls like you.” The key is saying it with a cheeky smile and playful tone.
Texting
Try texting your girl a few hours before you see her, hinting at what you plan to do with her when you do see her. It could be anything from kissing her to sex to cooking for her. If you aren’t sure exactly what to texts check out our Master Sexting Monday’s series for tips and simply copy paste scripts.
Leave her Wanting
Make sure to always say goodbye no matter if you will be gone for 10 minutes or 10 hours. Whisper something filthy in her ear as you are leaving in the morning. When you are saying goodbye to her, softly mention something suggestive to her like, “I can’t wait to see you tonight” or “I’m going to be thinking about you all day long.”
Small turn on’s built up over the course of the day can keep that anticipation of bedtime alive for you both no matter how long you have been together. Make it fun, and make it fit your dynamic.
