The web is full of what women want in bed. However, there is extraordinarily little information out there about what they DON’T want. We all know they do not want you to leave the seat up, but what about the things that go a little deeper? We are here to help you figure out if you might be making mood killing mistakes in between the sheets.

Neglecting their erogenous zones

Lips, tits, and clit are a no brainer, but are you exploring and enjoying all the rest of her body? Make sure you are letting your hands and lips wander through at least the 7 main erogenous zones.  Spend some time stimulating their entire body, not just during foreplay but during sex as well.

“Small” kinks

In most porns a good old ponytail tug gets every girl moaning in pleasure. In real life, pulling hair is pain play. The same applies to smacking their ass. Make sure your partner is into pain play before you bite their neck or tweak their nipples. You may be turning them off rather than on. Any kind of kink play should be discussed before sex, and a safe word should be established even if you consider it light play.

Surprises

Again, any atypicial sex play should be discussed prior to sex. Unless asked specifically, do not surprise her with a makeshift dildo. Or even the real thing.  Unless specifically requested, a surprise in her back will not make her a happy woman even if it is just the tip.

Construction work

You are not a jackhammer. Her taco is not a construction zone, pounding into her over and over will not make sex better. Not only can this hurt, but it can get old quick, and also wear you out making you need to stop for a break. Woman can lose their desire quickly so going 100 for 3 minutes then being to exhausted to finish her can kill her sexual drive.

Women overall are easy to please in bed as long as you listen to them about what gets the job done.