Being turned on by bodily fluids is a relatively common desire, people find pleasure in everything from cum to blood, golden showers are no exception.

Urolagnia

The technical term for people who enjoy giving or receiving golden showers is urolagniac. Urolagnia is a paraphilia in which sexual excitement is associated with the sight or thought of urine or urination. Sometimes it is linked to urinary functions in general, while other people only find gratification in urination on their partner or drinking the urine.

The What

A golden shower is not when you pee in the shower and watch the water mix with your pee turning a golden color before swirling down the drain. Instead, it involves peeing directly on your sexual partner. If your stomach is turning, consider, do you like cumming on your partners face, watching it drip down their breasts? For some people the same satisfaction is reached by watching their stream do the same thing.

The Why

For people involved in S&M water sports often come into play during boundary conversations. Some people enjoy the degradation or humiliation component of it, some people enjoy engaging in it because it’s taboo. For people with primal kink it can be seen as marking your territory. There’s no wrong or right reason to engage in it. As long as you and your partners are being safe and consensual, it’s normal and healthy to explore your fetishes.

The Risks

The actual composition of urine is 95 percent water, and technically it is sterile, however it is full of bacteria. Urine should be boiled prior to drinking it, aside from that as long as it has been negotiated and consented to this is one of the safer taboo fetishes to engage with.

If you’re interested in trying this act and it’s important to your overall sexual happiness, approaching the topic in a meaningful, patient way is important. See if they are open to it or to exploring the idea of it before you try to just relieve yourself on them.