Everyone loves oral sex, but what if your partner sucks at it? “Oral sex is any sexual activity that involves using the mouth on a partner’s intimate areas,” Also keep in mind many people with a vagina can only get off with oral sex, and men love getting head, here’s some tips on how to please your partner with oral.
Kiss from her mouth down to her breasts. Keep kissing her body as you lower yourself to her waist and hips. As you get to her panties, place a hand on either leg and slowly spread them. Pay extra attention to her on your way down. Don’t take her panties off yet. Instead, kiss her vulva/vagina through her panties and even squeeze it lightly with your lips. You can also softly run your tongue over her vagina from the bottom right up to the clit with that thin barely there layer of fabric helping you build the anticipation.
Oral sex can be really bad or uncomfortable. Both women and men have extremely sensitive genitals, so oral gone wrong can be a quick turn off.
For example, did you know some women are not cool with direct clitoral stimulation? It can get a little overwhelming and uncomfortable. So don’t shy away from telling them how you’d like it. Your orgasm is at stake here. Don’t hold back. Good communication means good orgasms
Bottom line is, feel around, don’t stay in one spot for too long direct contact with the clit will be painful and overwhelming, and biting a dudes junk will always be painful, take your time, feel your partners body language, and or just ask them how it feels. Communication is key to the best oral experiences.
